Friday, September 30, 2011

TriathaMOM

At the close of this post, I said that I would do another Triathlon. It has been three years since then, and I have to admit, I have hesitated wanting to enter another one.  That is, until, my dear friend encouraged others to join her for her first Triathlon.

The hesitation came because of my personal failure and fear of swimming in open water.  However, this one was held in a pool.  Heated water, lanes, no people swimming on top of one another to get ahead, women only.  I could do this one!

After registering, the first thing I did was dig out my old time sheet from the Cache Valley Classic.  My swim was 21:59, Bike 58:29 and Run 33:52.  I also printed out a suggested training routine that I followed to the letter the first week, then started slacking the next 8 weeks.  Another thing I can improve on next time.

When I trained for the run, it was always on a treadmill.  I would set the machine so that I would run a 9 minute mile and by the end my average was 10 minute miles.  I only rode a stationary bike, and would attend the spinning classes at the gym.  The swim was my absolute favorite!  I had managed to get the 12 lengths completed in 7 minutes.

The night before the race, I borrowed a sleek little road bike from my neighbor's, the Petit's who aren't strangers to triathlons.  Took it up and down a hill by our house a few times, deemed the bike a perfect fit (actually, I should have risen the seat a bit, I learned during mile 2 of the bike ride) and assumed I was trained-ish and ready to conquer the event in the morning.

In the wee hours of the morning, my ride came.  Four of us lovely ladies sat in the dark and discussed our nerves and what we had done the night before.  The three other lovelies were what some might call tri-virgins.  If you are going to do a tri for the first time, I highly suggest one in a pool.

Upon arrival, we unloaded our bikes, got our bodies all marked up and found spots for our bikes in the transition area.  Then we were all wise enough to step in the long line to wait for a turn in the porta potty.  A must-do before any race.

Around 8am, we all stripped down to our swimsuits, all body issues go out the door when you see 400 women with all different body shapes and sizes unite together for the same event.  It was awesome and so empowering.

They had us each get in the water and only had one woman swim out at a time, so there was no large wave of women storming the water at the same time.  It made for a lot less pressure.  Although, I still got the same tight panicky feeling in my chest whenever I entered the deeper sections of the pool.  Reminded me of the times we'd go snorkeling in Hawaii.  Something about lots and lots of water below me just gives me the willies, even if there aren't fish swimming with me.  The pool I trained in never got deeper than 5 ft, and I swear, it wasn't nearly as long as this pool was!

I felt totally rockin' when I started passing some of the swimmers and got all big in the head and thought, "oh, yeah!  I have got this thing in the BAG!"


Apparently I needed to be humbled, and that opportunity came within the first mile of the bike.  My throat was dry and I needed a drink of water, so I slid my hand down to my water bottle for some refreshment of the water kind only to lose my balance, swerve into the curb and land softly on the grass. I sat there, took a couple sips, a nice guy pulled over in his car to make sure I was okay, I assured him I was great.  Then I did what we are always told to do when we fall off a bike, and I got right back on!

I found a cute girl who was 24 (I know that because our ages are stamped on the back of our left calf and I stared at it through most of the bike portion of the race).  She and I biked at the same pace, so I decided to follow her.  About three times as many people as I passed on the swim passed me.  Humble Pie eaten. But I didn't let it get me down.

My personal goal was to finish this race without crying or feeling sorry for myself.

Riding on the road bike is a whole lot different than the spin bike at the gym.  I would probably like to train more on a bike like that for my next race (yes, I want to do another one, no, NEED to do another one).  Anyway, upon my accent to "hell hill" I felt as though I had enough momentum to get up it.  My little pacing friend was doing great and I wasn't worried until I felt the urge to go a little faster, but at that same moment two cars were coming in opposite directions and I lost the momentum.  At one moment I can recall being at a stand still on the bike and my mind thinking "It's over."  Not meaning the race, but the riding.  I noticed a few ladies in front of me walking their bikes up our little hell and decided to do the same.  Short walk over, I got back on and the remainder of the ride was smooth sailing and downhill with the wind blowing through my helmet.  Just beautiful country out there in Herriman.

When dismounting the bike I heard a sweet little voice yell out "Mom!"  There is nothing like that!  It is that extra push to keep you trying harder.  My handsome husband and 4 little children (yeah, Todd totally got them all ready and out the door to come and cheer me on) were right there by the transition area and I ran over and gave them hugs and kisses.  Dakota started screaming because he didn't want me running away.

I saw Becca and hoped to run with her, but as we were leaving there was a little straggler following me and not following her daddy!  I had to help little Carly find her daddy and reminded her that I would see her really soon.  That girl probably could have kept pace with me the whole time.  My run was a little bit slower than I had planned on, but I finished the race with a smile on my face and didn't cry even once!

My final times were Swim 7:58, Bike 55:26, Run, 36:56



Pictures taken by Becca's friend, the Sprouls...these girls let me join in on their picture taking fun...thanks girls!

All in all, I shaved almost 15 minutes off of my first tri time.  Next time my bike and my run will be better!  Who wants to join me next year?

Thursday, September 22, 2011

Portrait by Abigail

This is a picture of me, Abi's mom. I am not sure what to think of it.

So I have put it on the fridge.  Maybe it will deter me from grabbing that extra slice of cheese I like to go  for in the hopes that someday I can fit in that little purple dress.

Tuesday, September 13, 2011

If Our Life Were A Book...

...Broken up into chapters based upon the times in our married life when we felt the guiding hand of our Heavenly Father, the Index might look a little like this:


Chapter 1...............Marriage
"I Lift Thee, and Thee Lift Me, and Together We Will Ascend to Eternity"
Sealed for Eternity in the Salt Lake Temple on May 30, 1998

Chapter 2...............Mortgage I
"Our House, is a Very Very Very Fine House"
Purchase of first little home in Taylorsville in 1999.
Our Mortgage was only $98,000.
We were content to remain there for a very long time.

Chapter 3...............Sacrifice
"In this world it is not what we take up,
but what we give up, that makes us rich."
Sold everything we owned (home, cars, stuff) and moved to
Hawaii for Todd to work on his Doctorate of Architecture in August of 2002.

Chapter 4...............Blessings
"The Lord's love is often delivered through others as they respond to promptings of the Spirit."
Arrived in Honolulu and within 2 weeks were welcomed into an amazing ward family, found a good place to live and a great job,
all because of the members of our church.
Black Sand beach on Kauai

Chapter 5...............Baby #1
"When in doubt, choose the kids,
there will be plenty of time later to choose work."
January of 2005 we welcomed our first Son into the world, oh how life changed.
Mommy and Connor meet for the first time in the NICU

Chapter 6...............Dallas & Boston
"Experience: that most brutal of teachers.
But you learn, my God do you learn."
Spent 6 months in Dallas TX  then moved to Boston, MA
to complete Todd's practicums.
Playing in a Fountain at the Dallas Arboretum

Chapter 7...............Baby #2
"A daughter is one of the most beautiful gifts this world has to give."
Shortly after moving to Boston, our beautiful
Abi Girl joined us September of 2006.
Our little Boston Bean

Chapter 8...............Unrest
"If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's,
we'd grab ours back."
We returned to Hawaii in  January 2007 only to unexpectedly abandon our plan and move in with Todd's parents in Utah August.
Connor waves "Aloha" our first morning back in Honolulu

Chapter 9...............Baby #3
"I never wanted my mom more than the day I, myself, became a mother."
Thirteen months after the birth of Abigail, we had another little girl.  If you are going to have 3 kids under the age of 4, living with family is the way to go.
Grammy having a tender moment with Carly

Chapter 10...............Degree
"Learning is not attained by chance,
it must be sought for with ardor and diligence."
May of 2008, family members and ohana met at the University of Hawaii to witness the close of a 10 year scholarly journey as Todd received his
Doctor of Architecture Degree.
A very few members of our Ohana at Todd's Graduation

Chapter 11...............Mortgage
"It takes a heap o' livin' in a house t' make a home."
By no small miracle Todd got a job, we got a home and were ready to settle somewhere for longer than 9 months in July of 2008.

Chapter 12............Baby #4
"Sometimes being a brother is better than being a super hero."
April 2010 Baby Boone was eagerly welcomed into our family.
The kids can barely contain their excitement when meeting Dakota

Chapter 13...............Stagnate
"Happiness consists in activity.  It is a running steam, not a stagnant pool."
A gray time where Todd was unhappy with his work and knowing that something needed to change, but when and how to do it?

Chapter 14..............Tender Mercies
"Just because God doesn't answer your prayers doesn't mean He's not listening, He's just got something better in store for you."
One Friday afternoon after much fasting and prayers, we finally received a sense of direction and can move forward to something better!

Todd was "let go" from his job on good terms and is now in the process of starting and running his own architectural firm.  His dissertation for school was titled, "Starting an Architecture Firm: From Academia to Profession." So this is his chance to put it to work!  I have faith that this is what will make him the happiest and also provide for our family.  But your prayers (and referrals) would help too!


I am grateful for the knowledge that I can communicate with our Heavenly Father through personal prayer.  There isn't a day that goes by that I don't ask for or thank him for the many simple things that are always taking place in our life.

Friday, September 9, 2011

Back to School

It's the most wonderful time, of the year!
With the kids not home yelling
and teachers are telling you
drop them of here!
It's the most wonderful time, of the year!

 Abigirl on her first day of preschool.
Dakota, in the attire we like him in best.

 Carly...no nonsense!

Connor, 1st Grader

I LOVE having the kids back in school.  The routine of a school year is exactly what this inconsistent mommy needs.  It keeps me on track and helps me to prioritize my tasks better as well as weed out the ones that aren't that necessary.

There is no time to waste, so I find myself filling those once empty minutes with little tasks like making beds, doing dishes, coloring with the girls, and actually folding and putting away laundry as soon as it is dry. I am kinder to my children (despite what they may tell you).  8 months out of the year I am almost the mom/wife/housekeeper I have always dreamed of.

Connor is in a dual immersion program and is THRIVING.  He comes home asking if we can do homework and I find him using spanish words in place of english ones.  He already has all of his colors and numbers down, certain animals and objects.  I am so grateful we went with our gut and put him in this school.

Abi is doing great too.  She is up and dressed for school before I am out of bed.  She even has her backpack on and sitting at the couch waiting for her ride every school morning.  Her class size is small, which I love and she speaks so highly of her teachers.  Her favorite thing about school this far is making up stories.

Carly Belle loves school too and has so many adorable little neighbor friends in her class.  I love driving the carpool and hearing the funny things they say.  They never make sense to me, but the kids all seem to know what the other is talking about.

You would think with all of these kids in school, I would have one-on-one time with Dakota, but that won't come for a few more years.  The girls alternate days, so I still get to have them home with me for entertainment.

All in all, I think this is going to be a very wonderful school year!  If I can just remember which kids I pick up from school on which days.  I have already forgotten one...and it wasn't my own.

Monday, September 5, 2011

Girl Talk


Today I spent a good portion of the day running errands in the car with the girls.  You see, they start dance lessons tomorrow and I had to drive around town gathering all of the things they need just to participate in it.  I had no idea that leotards, tap shoes, ballet slippers, and tights would end up costing more than three months tuition for the two of them!

Here is a sampling of one of the discussions we had in the car:

Mom:  The teacher might ask if you are twins (we get that a lot, as I am sure many of you with children super close in age do).  What will you tell her?

Abi:  No

Mom:  If they ask who is older, what will you say?

Abi:  I am

Mom:  (trying to be sneaky and teasing) And what if they ask who is nicer?

Abi:  Carly is

Mom:  Laughter

Carly:  What?  I am nicer!

Abi:  She is.  I am only nice to Charlotte and Hailey and Kinzlee.  But Carly is nice to Jayden and Reagan and Kinzlee, and Sarah and Charlotte and you.

At this point I pause to reflect on the book/movie "The Help" and think to myself "I should probably say something each morning to Abi when I look her in the eyes like 'you are nice, you are kind, you are important.'"  It's moments like those that make me think that I am failing as a mother.